• This week, my 18 year old daughter drives me crazy.

    This week, my 18 year old daughter drives me crazy.

    This week, my 18 year old daughter drives me crazy.But I guess I had it coming. She said: – “You didn´t even work out yesterday, dad….”– “There is no law that says that you can only work out 1x per day, dad…”– “If we leave tomorrow at 0500…do we work out before that, dad…?” “Dad,…

  • I used to think I would live forever.

    I used to think I would live forever.

    I used to think I would live forever.But then I did something kind of confrontational yesterday. 😆 A survey to check my life expectancy. And there it was: my expected “expiration date”. Staring back at me from the screen. 89 Minus 51 is 38 years. 38 Summers. ☀️ No guarantees, by the way. My somewhat-older…

  • In 2005, we left our home in The Netherlands.

    In 2005, we left our home in The Netherlands.

    In 2005, we left our home in The Netherlands. Burned all our ships. And we left for Spain, leaving behind: • My Special Forces career• My wife’s successful gift shops• Our cozy home– Our entire safety net None of it came with us. And we arrived in Spain, with just: • €1000 monthly income• Zero…

  • I am 51, midlife, business owner, family man.

    I am 51, midlife, business owner, family man.

    I am 51, midlife, business owner, family man.2 Vital Things I optimise for:In your 20s: Health ✅ , Time ✅ , Money ❌In your 40s: Health ⬇️ , Time ❌ , Money ✅In your 60s: Health ❌ , Time ✅ , Money ✅ You see what´s broken here? So, what is the solution? 40s and…

  • As a former Royal Dutch Special Forces Officer, I learned:

    As a former Royal Dutch Special Forces Officer, I learned:

    As a former Royal Dutch Special Forces Officer, I learned:Every military objective comes with a casualty forecast.We call it “acceptable losses.” Ideally there are none. But that is not the reality. Now I see successful high achievers making the same calculations. Often without realizing it. In business, you’re running operations too. But are you doing…

  • I never thought that by 51 I’d already have:

    I never thought that by 51 I’d already have:

    I never thought that by 51 I’d already have: – A paid-off house– 1M Euro in passive income– A beach house in Bali– A Porsche GT3– A strong business network And I was absolutely right.I don’t have a single one of them. 🥱 –I openly ripped off this post idea from Emma Smith .Made me…