Choosing Compassion Over Competition in Hard Enduro – Never Too Late


“๐—ฃ๐—น๐—ฒ๐—ฎ๐˜€๐—ฒ, ๐—ฝ๐—น๐—ฒ๐—ฎ๐˜€๐—ฒ, ๐—ฝ๐—น๐—ฒ๐—ฎ๐˜€๐—ฒ, ๐—ต๐—ฒ๐—น๐—ฝ ๐—บ๐—ฒ… ๐—ฝ๐—น๐—ฒ๐—ฎ๐˜€๐—ฒ!”

The desperation in his voice cuts through the roar of engines.

I stop, scanning the steep hillside, and then I see himโ€”a fellow competitor, a Korean rider, stranded way off the track.

His bike lies meters below, tangled in the bushes, and heโ€™s clinging to it, eyes wide with fear.

I’m in the middle of the Sea to Sky Hard Enduro race in Turkey.

The rules are simple: you have four hours to clear as many checkpoints as possible. Time is ticking.

But this guy, heโ€™s in real trouble.

Heโ€™s caught in a nightmare of a situationโ€”a steep off-camber turn has sent him and his 115-kilogram bike sliding down a nearly vertical slope.

If he slips, heโ€™s not just out of the race; heโ€™s heading straight for the bottom of a valley. Broken bike. Maybe broken bones.

โ€œ๐˜”๐˜ข๐˜ฏ, ๐˜บ๐˜ฐ๐˜ถโ€™๐˜ณ๐˜ฆ ๐˜ด๐˜ค๐˜ณ๐˜ฆ๐˜ธ๐˜ฆ๐˜ฅ,โ€ I mutter, half to myself.

He already knows that. โ€œ๐˜ ๐˜ฆ๐˜ข๐˜ฉ, ๐˜ฎ๐˜ข๐˜ฏ… ๐˜Š๐˜ข๐˜ฏ ๐˜บ๐˜ฐ๐˜ถ ๐˜ฉ๐˜ฆ๐˜ญ๐˜ฑ ๐˜ฎ๐˜ฆ?โ€

His arms are trembling, and I can see the strain in his face.

Heโ€™s been fighting gravity for minutes, muscles shaking with exhaustion. One wrong move and heโ€™s done for.

I hesitate.

Stopping to help could cost me precious minutes, even places in the race. But looking down at him, thereโ€™s no way heโ€™s getting out of this alone.

I park my bike against a tree and slide down to him.

His eyes light up, filled with a mix of hope and exhaustion. โ€œ๐˜›๐˜ฉ๐˜ข๐˜ฏ๐˜ฌ ๐˜บ๐˜ฐ๐˜ถ, ๐˜ฎ๐˜ข๐˜ฏ… ๐˜ต๐˜ฉ๐˜ข๐˜ฏ๐˜ฌ ๐˜บ๐˜ฐ๐˜ถ.โ€

Together, we lift his bike.

Itโ€™s like trying to haul dead weight up a cliffโ€”my arms burn, and sweat pours down my face.

But slowly, inch by inch, we drag the machine back to safety.

Finally, we pull it up to the track, both of us gasping for air.

The guy is practically in tears, overcome with relief.

โ€œ๐˜”๐˜ข๐˜ฏ, ๐˜ ๐˜ฅ๐˜ฐ๐˜ฏโ€™๐˜ต ๐˜ฌ๐˜ฏ๐˜ฐ๐˜ธ ๐˜ฉ๐˜ฐ๐˜ธ ๐˜ต๐˜ฐ ๐˜ต๐˜ฉ๐˜ข๐˜ฏ๐˜ฌ ๐˜บ๐˜ฐ๐˜ถ,โ€ he says, throwing his arms around me. โ€œ๐˜โ€™๐˜ญ๐˜ญ ๐˜ณ๐˜ช๐˜ฅ๐˜ฆ ๐˜ธ๐˜ช๐˜ต๐˜ฉ ๐˜บ๐˜ฐ๐˜ถ ๐˜ฏ๐˜ฐ๐˜ธ. ๐˜“๐˜ฆ๐˜ตโ€™๐˜ด ๐˜ฅ๐˜ฐ ๐˜ต๐˜ฉ๐˜ช๐˜ด ๐˜ต๐˜ฐ๐˜จ๐˜ฆ๐˜ต๐˜ฉ๐˜ฆ๐˜ณ.โ€

I smile, breathless but happy. โ€œ๐˜ ๐˜ฆ๐˜ข๐˜ฉ, ๐˜ญ๐˜ฆ๐˜ตโ€™๐˜ด ๐˜จ๐˜ฐ.โ€

Before today, I knew nothing about Koreaโ€”barely even tried Kimchi.

Now, in the middle of this brutal race, Iโ€™ve got a new friend, a brother forged in hardship.

It reminds me of my days in the Special Forces, where ๐—ฏ๐—ผ๐—ป๐—ฑ๐˜€ ๐˜„๐—ฒ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ ๐—บ๐—ฎ๐—ฑ๐—ฒ ๐—ป๐—ผ๐˜ ๐—ถ๐—ป ๐—ฐ๐—ผ๐—บ๐—ณ๐—ผ๐—ฟ๐˜ ๐—ฏ๐˜‚๐˜ ๐—ถ๐—ป ๐˜€๐˜๐—ฟ๐˜‚๐—ด๐—ด๐—น๐—ฒ, ๐—ถ๐—ป ๐—ฝ๐˜‚๐—น๐—น๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด ๐—ฒ๐—ฎ๐—ฐ๐—ต ๐—ผ๐˜๐—ต๐—ฒ๐—ฟ ๐˜๐—ต๐—ฟ๐—ผ๐˜‚๐—ด๐—ต ๐—ถ๐—บ๐—ฝ๐—ผ๐˜€๐˜€๐—ถ๐—ฏ๐—น๐—ฒ ๐˜€๐—ถ๐˜๐˜‚๐—ฎ๐˜๐—ถ๐—ผ๐—ป๐˜€.

We tackle the course togetherโ€”pulling, pushing, lifting, helping each other through sections that seem impassable.

He waits for me; I wait for him. The minutes fly by.

๐—ช๐—ฒโ€™๐—ฟ๐—ฒ ๐˜๐—ผ๐—ผ ๐—น๐—ฎ๐˜๐—ฒ.

We roll into the final checkpoint 12 minutes past the cut-off time.

Our effort doesnโ€™t count.

No result. No ranking for this checkpoint.

The staff waves us off, yelling, โ€œ๐—ง๐—ผ๐—ผ L๐—ฎ๐˜๐—ฒ!โ€

But we just laugh, exhausted and exhilarated.

We high-five, because we knowโ€”some things matter more than winning.

In the end, it wasnโ€™t about finishing first or beating the clock.

It was about two strangers helping each other out of an impossible situation. About pushing through pain, exhaustion, and fear, together.

๐—•๐—ฒ๐—ฐ๐—ฎ๐˜‚๐˜€๐—ฒ ๐—ถ๐˜โ€™๐˜€ ๐—ป๐—ฒ๐˜ƒ๐—ฒ๐—ฟ T๐—ผ๐—ผ L๐—ฎ๐˜๐—ฒ ๐˜๐—ผ ๐—บ๐—ฎ๐—ธ๐—ฒ ๐—ฎ ๐—ณ๐—ฟ๐—ถ๐—ฒ๐—ป๐—ฑ ๐—ณ๐—ผ๐—ฟ ๐—น๐—ถ๐—ณ๐—ฒ.

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